<blockquote>"You can’t have it both ways, Colonel. If you haven’t had any relationships, either you’re having the occasional one-night stand or you’re not having sex at all.”</blockquote>
➤ gosh, to reread this was to be reminded of the fact that it's the origins of a surprising amount of my mental landscape on the subject of John Sheppard.
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